Baby crying is usually completely normal. But this doesn't stop it being very hard for lots of parents. Your health visitor and doctor are there to help with all things related to you and your baby. Don't hesitate to get in touch with them especially if you think something is wrong. NHS advice is also available 24/7 by phoning 111 or online (link HERE).
Please see below for details and links to some of the other professional information, support, and resources which are available to help online. All of these links are to evidence-based resources developed by experts in the field. Whilst there are no easy answers (which is hard in itself), we hope you feel a bit reassured that lots of parents are trying to survive baby crying.
NHS webpages
The NHS provide webpages with information for parents about soothing crying babies and babies diagnosed with colic. These can be found at:
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/baby/caring-for-a-newborn/soothing-a-crying-baby/
https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/colic/
Parents talking about challenging baby crying (videos from NSPCC)
New parents sharing their experiences of baby crying, how it's made them feel, and what they've tried. Hopefully, it's good to hear from others who are going through a similar thing and just trying to survive.
Video 1: Coping with Crying: First Feelings of Parenthood - click HERE
Video 2: Coping with Crying: Looking After You - click HERE
CRY-sis
Cry-sis is a helpline providing help for parents with crying or sleepless babies.
Lines are open seven days a week, 9am-10pm.
Phone: 08451 228 669 (check website for charges)
More information at: www.cry-sis.org.uk
I.C.O.N.
These letters stand for:
I: Infant crying is normal
C: Comforting methods can help
O: It’s OK to walk away
N: Never, ever shake a baby
Advice and resources for parents can be found at:
https://iconcope.org/advice-for/parents/
P.U.R.P.L.E. crying
Web-based advice and resources for parents and professionals developed in the US. Designed to normalise baby crying and reduce risk of baby shaking. The letters stand for:
P: Peak of crying
U: Unexpected
R: Resists soothing
P: Pain-like face
L: Long-lasting
E: Evening
https://dontshake.org/purple-crying
Getting to know your baby (GTKYB) videos on YouTube
Developed by AIMH-UK, these short videos cover lots of aspects of life with a new baby including information on baby crying and getting babies to sleep.
https://www.youtube.com/@aimhuk4047/videos
Baby Buddy app
Developed by UK charity Best Beginnings, the free Baby Buddy app is for parents throughout pregnancy and parenting in a day-by-day format. There are featured videos about baby crying on the app.
https://www.bestbeginnings.org.uk/baby-buddy
What were we thinking?
A free app for parents developed in Australia. Covers all kinds of helpful topics including baby crying.
https://www.pregnancybirthbaby.org.au/what-were-we-thinking
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